How often do we hear the sentence, “I’m looking for Mr Right”?
All the time?
But do you ever stop to think that perhaps men are looking for their Mrs Right, too?
When men reach a certain age, they’re as committed to finding the One just as much as we are. There are qualities they look for, bad habits they’d rather pass on, and certain dating pitfalls to avoid.
And men can be very selective in their search for the right woman. For this reason, to become every man’s dream you need to know exactly what men want – which is not exactly easy!
So join us as we take a look at how to become every man’s dream.
Respecting other people is one thing, but men want to see you have some self-respect above and beyond anything else.
How you present yourself to them is super important, as it says a whole lot about the type of person you are. If you walk around in your slacks all the time, and literally don’t care who sees you on a bad hair day, you’re probably not going to impress every man.
Social media is also very important, as the photos you upload and the statuses you make can be a deal breaker with guys. If you work hard to show that you have lots of self respect, men will certainly feel more positive about you.
Be An Affectionate Person
Freud may have been a little bonkers at times, and he most certainly took a few of his theories way too far; but it’s certainly true that men love their mothers – and they look for motherly affection from you.
Although guys are supposed to be the masculine, protective warriors who keep a roof over our heads and grant us financial security, they’re also totally loveable and need some tender love and care, just like we do. They want a woman who is warm and affectionate towards her man. They don’t want someone who will tell them they’re just a big baby whenever they’re ill.
Yes, looks are important. But intelligence is just as important; sometimes it’s even more important.
Guys go absolutely crazy over a smart woman who can engage their brains and challenge their mental horizons. They look for women who can stimulate them mentally, hold proper conversations, and who will never bore them by talking about the same things over and over and over.
Be Emotionally Mature
All relationships hit rocky periods, where you both argue with one another. How you react says a lot about you as a person.
To become every man’s dream, you need to be emotionally mature. You need to approach arguments with a sound, rational and reasonable mindset. If you’re wrong, admit that you are wrong. Don’t constantly point the finger at him, refusing to back down, because you don’t want to look at fault. You need to handle situations in the right way, without letting your emotions spill over.
Have A Sense Of Humour
Guys don’t like it when a woman is serious all the time. Men like to crack jokes, indulge in “banter”, and relax a little now and then. If you refuse to get in on their jokes, you’re probably not going to be every man’s dream.
Playfulness is important to the success of any relationship. If a guy is trying to be light-hearted and you’re scowling at him, telling him to “grow up”, he’s going to take it as a sign that this relationship is not going to last very long.
Smile And Be Positive
A negative woman who finds something to moan about every day, and who cannot say any ray of sunshine in life is not every man’s dream. This kind of woman might be right for someone, but it certainly won’t be everyone.
Men like women who smile. They like to be around women who are positive, and who make them feel good. They enjoy radiance, passion and vitality. They want to be able to wake up next to you in the morning and be inspired by your smile and your happy aura.
Let’s face it, if you can’t be honest about the fundamental things in life, you’re hardly going to impress lots of guys.
And if you can’t even be honest about the small things in life, you’re going to struggle to attract anyone.
No man likes it when a woman lies about everything from her age to her previous partners. They want to be able to trust you right from the start, because they’re putting their life in your hands. Sincerity is the bedrock to any successful relationship.
Earlier, we said that guys like smart women who can challenge their mental horizons. But you need to be approachable with your personality, no matter how smart you are.
A dominating woman is only going to scare men off. They’ll find it hard to talk to you, be themselves around you, and they’ll certainly struggle to convince themselves that they should introduce you to their parents.
Stand Up For Yourself
This is 2015, and men want a woman who can stand up for herself. They don’t want to date a woman who is too weak to believe in herself, and who lets everyone walk all over her. Modern man wants a woman to have so much self-belief, confidence and self-respect that he will be honored to be called her beloved.