It’s amazing how girls tend to get carried away in the heat of the moment when relationships are new and at their best.
Then, a guy could erode a lady’s thoughts and render every rational thinking nerve useless. As adults, one could be at liberty to act the way he or she dims fit; however, when the consequences come, one should also be willing to accept the rashness that follows.
People these days, with the help of technology see no reason why nude pictures can’t be exchanged between two people heatedly in love oblivious to the fact that the move is fraught with danger. It has become a widespread phenomenon to see girls’ nudity splashed on some social media. From researches and some people’s experiences, the following reasons may guide ladies who see nothing wrong in sharing nude pictures with men.
From cultural and religious views, a woman’s body is considered to be a temple; a sacred place. You don’t sell yourself as someone with morals and values when you send nude pictures of yourself to men. The recipients of these nude pictures don’t see you as innocent; their perceptions of such ladies are wild and loose. Having sex outside the institution of marriage is bad enough for some people, having pictures of nudity displayed everywhere is way off the bunk.
Some ladies are naïve. Most of them are often faced with the option of sending nude pictures or not sending. Young ladies basically don’t know how to go about issues like that. Long romantic bed-time conversations often degenerate into talking about irrelevant topics. A man may be tempted to ask a lady about what she has on and curiosity will nudge him to ask the lady for pictures so he could visualize things. Although this may ignite the sparks in some relationships, the pictures getting into the wrong hands may wreck someone’s life and career. The modes of sending these pictures aren’t secured most times.
Ruin Your Chance At Happiness
Imagine what an old nude picture could do to a political aspirant either at the national or local level. The implications of such an action might not have been considered then, but with a booming technology, it wouldn’t take long for such pictures to go viral. Again, the internet isn’t a place to put up one’s nudity; it doesn’t go away. It breeds scandal, taints one’s reputation and in cases where it doesn’t go viral, it becomes a potential weapon for blackmail.
Extreme Ways Of Handling It
People have different ways of responding to shock and pain. Some ladies who find their nude pictures trending on one social media or the other due to set ups by aggrieved exes or carelessness may find it difficult to handle the situation. These ladies get embarrassed and may find it hard to face their family members. Hundreds have lost their lives to the cruelty of this issue by hanging or poisoning themselves while others have moved on with the stigma.
Gives Room For Domination
Having a man see a woman’s nakedness during sexual activities isn’t quite the same as having still images of the act or the woman’s body sent everywhere. Pictures travel; the camera and phone could get stolen and the pictures become someone else’s property. The man may get mad at the woman at some point and the pictures may be used against her and to control her. It’s beyond humiliation to have one’s unborn child see such images. One could lose one’s ground as a parent as it would be difficult to instill morals in cases like that.