Unfortunately, there are a million and one things that can dampen a woman’s libido and make it difficult for her to get turned on. But luckily for you fellas, there are three powerful tools that can help you overcome those things, and get her revved up and ready to go.
Here are three great tips to improve the odds and help you have sex with your wife or girlfriend tonight:
1. Flattery her with the small, sexy things you notice.
She may be beautiful, strong, and sexy to the point you have a hard time keeping your hands OFF her. But women are constantly under attack. All day, every day, women see and hear negative messages from the media that tell us that we aren’t good enough, not thin enough, not sexy enough, not smart enough.
As a result, women often strive to be absolutely perfect, and can easily start to feel down on themselves if they don’t quite make the mark. So, by telling her how attractive you find her, you’re automatically on her side, helping her fight back against all the negativity.
I know it gets difficult, especially in a long-term relationship. When you see the same person over and over again, sometimes these things slip through the cracks and you just wind up missing stuff. But all you really need to do to bring back that spark is try to remember to mention the little things you DO notice.
2. Get down and dirty, and clean the house.
Men don’t seem to like this one, but I assure you that helping around the house is one of the sexiest things you can do for your lady. One of the most common reasons I hear women say they aren’t in the mood? They’re tired and resentful of the fact that after a long day, they’re doing shopping, cooking, cleaning, and laundry.
She’s worn out, and is it any wonder? If you find housework tedious, she does, too. Giving her a hand gets it done that much quicker so both of you have the energy to get dirty in a much more fun way. Also pay more attention to the state of your home, and odds are she will have the energy to pay more attention to your manhood.
3. Never skimp on the foreplay.
This may take some work on your part, but at least it’s FUN work. If you focus on making sure she gets off every single time, even if she says it’s OK and not to worry about it, she’s really going to get into it.
Think about it. If you master the art of pleasuring her and give her an earth-shattering orgasm every time, she’ll be much more likely to get naked. Make it your mission to give her a climax. Humans tend to like to reward positive behavior. If she starts to associate skin-tingling, toe-curling orgasms with you, she’s definitely going to be on board with having sex more often.