“Please admin post this.
I need all the active girls in the house to bring up suggestions.
Am a married woman, my family and I live in a 3bed room apartment which we still pay rent. I work and my husband also work, but I earn more than him so I support the family too. We shared the expenses, I take care of feeding while he pays for accommodation and school fees, which I also contribute too. We both love each other and life has been ok not until my husband came to me last week that he was broke, I asked him what he used his last salary for, which he lied to me that he sent it to his sick dad,I agreed but was very careless not to call his dad to find out. He told me that he needed 600k to sort out something very important,I insisted on knowing what it was he needed the money for but he got upset and said I can forget if I don’t want to help him, he will just get a loan from the bank, so I had to run around. I had just 250k in my account so u borrowed 350k from my friends and co workers. I gathered the money and gave to him.
3 days later I saw a receipt in his suit pocket, a receipt of and I phone 7,with a girls name on it, I did not want to believe what my mind was telling me, so I composed myself and waited for him to get back, before then something just asked me to check that receipt again , which I did and saw a phone number. I quickly added the number on wasssp, which I saw an I phone 7 on the persons DP. I almost called the number but why embarrass myself. As soon as he got back and went to have his Bath, I rushed and grabbed his phone,scrolled but found nothing,so I dialed the number, it was a ladies voice. I dropped and she called back, so I picked, pretended like I was not hearing her then cut and dropped her a message. (Hope you are enjoying your new phone, and she replied yes papi. I will love you till death ).
Tears rolled down my eyes. I have not asked him yet, I have just been crying and thinking. He has also been petting me and begging me to talk to him, but my mouth is shut, my heart is cold, I feel I might die soon. Please I need advise . Divorce him or make him a walking dead .?”
READ HUSBAND’S REPLY BELOW…
“Break or make I I hear you save lives and marriages,it is time to prove it to me.
My wife wrote you a story few days back about how I bought my girlfriend the latest i.phone 7.
I must confess that it is very true but I need to state my reasons.
My wife just moved out of the house with my kids yesterday without a word,and I kept wondering what I did. She blocked me from all her phones and any means of reaching her, I had to call her mum, whom I complained to and she promised to get back to me before my girlfriend whom I bought the phone for drew my attention to your page and the story my wife posted.
I know she will see this and this is the only means I can explain myself to her.
I dated my girlfriend for 4 years but we did not get married because of health issues before I met my wife and we parted,We really loved each other so much that she vowed never to get married again in her life.
We have been in contact even while I was married,I never mean to hurt my wife but my girlfriend did nothing to me and I have been trying to let her go but I can’t. I bought her that phone because that was the first thing she has ever asked me after she got me a job,I felt indebted to her that was why I was willing to borrow money to buy her the phone.
Am very sorry cup cake, I know I hurt you real bad but we can talk this over,you can help me kill this feeling I feel and forget because it is not deliberate,I just feel I owe her because she is single cause of me.
Forgive me cup cake am very very sorry, it is not as bad as you think and she is willing to apologize to you. Am also willing to pay you back the money you borrowed me and buy you the same kind of I.phone 7 just to show you I love you. I know you are hurt but as you read this, know that I will be home with no food, water, or even go out if you don’t come back. And if I don’t see you in 3days, I will take my own life because I can’t live without you by my side. Forgive me please am very sorry . I love you and I miss my kids. Thanks
Cc @break_or_makeup speechless ?? “