I got this open letter on liveofofo’s facebook page and decided to post it here. Please read the story

Duped and Rejected by Husband – Story of Bisi Nwokenkwo the wife of Jude Nwokenkwo, a local Government Chairman in Imo state, Nigeria

I undertsand this may come to some people as a surprise and to others it may seems like an angry wife venting all their laundry through social media. What ever your feelings may be please keep an open mind and think about what it might be like if your own sister or family member was the one facing this kind of situation, what will you do? Remember l could be your sister, your mother, and or your relative…..

My name is Bisi Nwokenkwo the wife of Jude Nwokenkwo, the current Ehime mbano local government chairman Imo state, Nigeria. We have been married for 21yrs with three wonderful boys age 17, 11, and 8year old. Fourteen months ago my husband Jude Nwokenkwo decided with my full support and blessings to run for Federal house of Representative under APGA in Imo state, he lost the election to another candidate from New york. But was appointed the local government chairman (Ehime Mbano) by the current Governor of Imo State (His excellency Rochas).

Since fourteen months now my husband (Jude) has abandoned me and our three boys without any prior diagreements or problems. I have tried numerous avenue to either speak to him directly about his obligations and or have his closest friends talk to him, every effort has failed. As of now our home has been foreclosed and he has not contributed towards the financial stability of his boys since he left for the election in November 2010.

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I found out in the begining of 2011through private investigation that Jude Nwokenkwo is now married to a 21yrs old lady called Ugonma Duru younger sister of Cyprian I. Duru, l understand this young lady have a family members in Virginia that condoned her behavior. According to this younger lady’s family in Virginia, Jude had told them that he has never been married or have any kids, which is a naive statement to make……. a 48yrs old Ibo man not married and no kids, are you kiding me???? What planet do this family thinks they are from? Throughout all this, l have tried to justify my husband’s action/irresponsible behaviour by saying to myself men will be men and may be probably he is using this younger lady to release election tension in Naija. I guess it’s more than releasing election tension, after drinking the milk Jude decided to buy the cow. If only the cow worth losing your family and life for. You all will see what am talking about when you see jude’s new concubine’s picture. I can’t believe this weak, no backbone man is leaving me and our boys for this ugly joker looking face lady……what am l saying self, l forgot beauty is in the eyes of the beholder…hahaha. Men, seriously if you want to leave your wife and kids for a lady pleaseeeee make sure is worth it and not someone you have to serve for the rest of your life with her family…..shiooo! This husband of of mine thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. He kept me and some his families in the dark for so long until God exposed him to me.

As of now Jude Nwokenkwo is living with this lady in owerri city as a married couple and are both expecting a baby anytime soon, it not a rumor but facts.

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This evil heartless man (Jude) is not only commiting an adultery/begamy, he has the nerves to ruined my credit here in the States by taking out a $40,000 loan on my name from JP morgan chase without my consent…..people who does that???? if it’s not a criminal minded human being. Jude Nwokenkwo and his brothers Emmanuel and Simon Nwokenkwo are bunch of 419s.

Furthermore, when Jude came back to the U.S in July 2011 for three weeks he wired $8,000 to this younger lady’s account in Naija, l have all the evidence and he also purchased a $2000.00 wedding rings for her, when l comfronted him in front of our pastor with all the evidence he have the nerves to say that it was for my birthday….negro are you for real?? Mind you people he never give me that ring. And he ran back to Nigeria without our knowledges.

The sad part was when he was sworn in as the local govt chairman, he refused the presences of me and the boys, l can’t believe he used his brother’s wife as a woman standing in my place. When people asked him where is family are he cooked up a story about how they will join him later. What a shame!

This stupid man (Jude Nwokenkwo) has a lucrative Home Healthcare business here in chicago, he cannot even instruct his business partner to give his family money to support us instead he has the gut to use his younger brother Simon Uche Nwokenkwo to wire money to him in Naija everytime and also he has been helping him shipping mecedes benz trucks to Nigeria for a present for his new fake wife, oh sorry, his concubine.

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Both brothers are now scheming the medical supply distributors out of thousands of dollar worth of equipments by closing down our medical supply company here in chicago, Illinois and shipping all unpaid equipments to Nigeria to open up a new equipment supply shop in Owerri Imo state, Nigeria. That’s a crime.

For the past fourteen months have tried to reason with this man, l can’t keep this any longer and l just want all this to be out in the open for everyone to know the true color of Jude Nwokenkwo…. this man is a camileon.

Jude and his concubine called my mobile phone this afternoon Jan 24th 2012 from Nigeria to insult me. Maaannn Jude must be pussy whooped as one of my dear friend said. Huh!

My fellow Nigerians, if some of you on this forum thinks am venting……damn right skippy l am, 21yrs of married is not a joke. My kids and l deserved better than the way Jude is treating us and it is not fair. “never bite the hands that feeds you” I thought wise people say charity begins at home. If Jude cannot take care of his family how on earth did the Governor appoint this man to serve his constituency. Naija citizens need to start watching out for people they put in the office to serve them, that is why we are still in all this mess.

Thank you all for reading my open letter. And don’t forget to open the attacment to view Jude’s new 21yrs old concubine. (the pics below)

Mrs Bisi Nwokenkwo

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46 thoughts on “Please Read this Story and Advice this woman (the wife of a local Government Chairman in Imo state)”

  1. Some Men are not just
    worth fighting for,,some men are heartless. what my brother here has rightly said,,take your problem to Jesus ,he will surely help you,,you dnt need to stress your self my dear.I know its not easy though,all you need to do is to pray for him.

  2. Bisi,
    God don catch you. stop crying wolf. All the people that are supporting don’t know the genesis of your matter with Jude.Pray to God for forgiveness first. Jude really treated you very well, you took him for granted.
    Now, see what has happened to you for being an ass hole, mean, and disrespectful to a man that loved you. When next you get a man that wants to live with you, be very courteous, lady-like, and like an African you are.I am only moved to write this because I know everything you wrote are pure lies and uncalled for.I live in Chicago like you and I know the true story.Change your style. If you are genuine you would not have choose the internet to post your story.This means that , the same way you have been fighting against his progress you still don’t want him to move on. Could people believe that you are trained nurse, who have never worked for one day in her life in America. Stop seeking peoples sympathy.

  3. people sometimes dont know the value of what they have until they loose. This world is turning in2 something. No responsible n God fearing man would leave his family/marriage like that. My advice is that u leave d case 2 GOD .commit d situatn 2 God in prayers.

  4. Micheal obi,
    Point of correction Micheal or whatever you claimed to be, l know everything about Bisi and Jude we are family friend in Chicago and they are both very well respected couples in Chicago Nigeria Community here in the state . Because l live in Chicago too, l advice you to ask God to forgiveness . because you don’t know nothing, absolutely nothing about this couples. l pray that such of this problem will happen to you and your generation to come in Jesus name (Amen). Because the Bible says what God has join together let no man put asunder. Because am not to sure who is feeding you the crap that you are uploaded here on this forum but you need to get facts right. If you are a decent man/ woman or have any moral at all you will not condoned what Jude has done to his family.
    Do you live in their house for you to know that Bisi is not in support of her husband’s progress as you’ve mentioned, just the same way you think you can come on this forum others can come also, God said do not bear false witness, and that’s exactly what you are doing here. By the way, the original copy of this open letter that l read in Chicago forum have two of Mr. Jude younger bride on it, who supposed to be his daughter, how come am only looking at one here. If Mr. Jude want leave his wife for that little rat there are better way to do so, Marriage is not by force. He did it in a coward way by using Election as an excuse to leave his wife and three boys. Has Mr, Jude ever confront his wife with his intention or have a discussion with her about lack of interest in the marriage? l was at their home when his wife had a huge fundraiser for him prior to his departure to Nigeria in 2010. So what the hell are talking about? Am beginning to think that this same Micheal Obi is the same Jude concubine that disguised herself as Micheal Obi. Lady what goes around comes around, what Jude did to his family he will do to you.
    And beside l don’t think this lady have a good mother or good family that can advise her not to married a 48year old who supposed to be her father at this age of her. Well some mother of nowadays there are not a mother they murderer , because if she a good mother you cannot open your eyes looking at your 21years old girl to get married to a 48years old married man for God sake were is this life is turning to just because of Mr. Jude wealth. This is very, very disgusting in our Nigerian community, l believed that this is not natural and l prayed that whatever this girl and her mother is using to remote this man life God in His infinity mercy will destroy it one day, Because light and darkness can lives together. She think she happy now eating somebody wealth that is lab our for 21years and you think God will be looking at her is in impossible. It is just a matter of time. Bitchhhhh!!!!!
    This woman you snatch her husband live you to the Judgement of God.

    Well, my advise to you young lady, Because l have a daughter like your age whatever any Eve power you are using over this man is not too late now to released him God can still have mercy on you because God is a mercy full God. The Bible says: in book of Psalms 1:5-6,
    SAYS: Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgement, nor sinner in the congregation of the righteous.
    For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous but the way of the ungodly shall perish.

  5. Bisi,
    Tell the people that are having sympathy on you the truth. Tell them you receive the sum of $4000 from Dr. Jude every month for you and his kids up keep. Tell them you use to give him your undies to wash, tell them you use to call him short ugly man. If you have a case, why don’t you go to court, than messing yourself up in the internet. Since you came to America Bisi, have you ever worked for one day? why did you not put your picture so that people will see your ugly face? The only people I feel for are Dr. Jude kids who will miss the fatherly love they are use to . As for you we know you don’t miss him,so go ahead and have your fun.

  6. Michael Obi u are a stupidy man for saying that are u a heathless man, must Jude wife work, is she nt the one who give birth to the three kids a be is that hw u treat ur wife she deserve to be take care of and nting less, instead of u to call d family and settle the problem u are hear blaming the wife for exposing the husband u Michael Obi u need to be flog for ur artitude on this matter, Jude wife dont mind Michael Obi and ur inrespounceable husband pls commit it in the hands of the Lord because only him

  7. To God be the glory, we have heard bisi side of this sordid story & i invited Jude to come so as to say his own but alas he did not show up as promised. what i will not like to do is to make my comments via this medium but i will reply to something what this so called flo is saying that bisi is receiving 400dollars from jude & that bisi makes jude wash her undies are not what any sensible person will come on the internet to say to the whole world. What is happening now is not a new thing & i believe it can still be settled. i want jude to get in touch with me.

  8. Who is this faceless Michael Obi? If truly there is a Michael Obi that claims he knows Bisi, he must be smoking or drinking something out of this world. All your claims are bogus and they have holes in it. If you don’t have facts, don’t base your argument on what you heard from people who sympathizes with Jude. What you need to know is that no matter what might have transpired between married couples, it’s not right to just walk out of your home leaving your kids without any fatherly care and remember what the bible tell us “Do not forsake the wife of your youth”.

  9. I am very disappointed and surprised to read all this misconceptions about this couples (Dr Jude and Bisi). I have known this couples for a long time and can stand to correct this Micheal Obi that seems to know everything about Bisi and Dr Jude. If you claimed to know these couples very well this avenue is not the place to say all this nonsense and if you are for peace of this family you will not make it your mission to disgrace the same person you think you are protecting. Three boys that loves their parents are been dragged into this chaos and you Micheal Obi finds this amusing? Your claims, is not helping but disgracing and demoralizing Dr Jude by saying he washes his wife’s undies ? (I found that insulting). Lets just pray for this couples, l know they are going through trials right now and l believe that God will bring Dr Jude back to his youth wife and children again as wisely put by baba. The love between these couples that l witness is very strong, only sincere and true love can conquer all. Bisi stand up straight, focus onto your God and your kids, only our heavenly father knows the truth of the matter. You are confident, educated, a great mother and devine wife that loves her husband it shows when we saw you and Dr Jude in every gathering in Chicago. Stay strong my sister you are blessed.

  10. I THINK THIS MICAEL OBI IS VERY VERY WRONG CLUELESS ORGAN.I THINK THERE IS RATHER NO REAL MICHAEL OBI,MAY BE THIS IS DR.OKONKWO OR ANY OF HIS PARTNERS IN SHAME.THAT MEANS THEY ARE RATTLED ALREADY.SCARED SHITLESS I MIGHT ADD.THEY MAY HAVE ALSO SOLD THESE LIES TO THE COMMUNITY WHO MAY HAVE BEEN PESTERING FOR NEWS ABOUT THE REAL FIRST LADY OF MY LOCAL GOVERNMENT.I WILL TAKE UP THIS MATTER IF ONLY AS A POLITICAL WEAPON.WE’VE HAD OUR FAIR SHARE OF PRETENDERS AND SCAMMERS IN MY LOCAL GOVERNMENT.ENOUGH IS JUST ENOUGH.LIKE I SAID,I WILL FIGHT THIS…I REALLY WILL AND BET ME,THERE WILL BE RESULTS…..THIS IS JUST A SMALL BEGINNING…

    NOW TO MY OWN PIECE,I BASICALLY WANT MADAM BISI TO DO SOME SOUL SEARCHING…

    THIS IS NOTHING NEW.JUST ENJOY UR LIFE WD THE KIDS.U KNOW U SHOULDNT HAVE ALLOWED THE GUY TO ABANDON FAMILY & A THRIVING BUSINESS (AS U CLAIMED) IN THE USA FOR THE DIRTY WATERS OF NIGERIAN POLITICS.MAY BE U TOO WANTED SOME FREE EASY SPACE TO FOOL AROUND.NOW HE’S BEATEN U TO THE GAME U BOTH KNOW HOW TO PLAY.IF U SO MUCH BELEIVED IN POLITICS,WOULDNT U HAVE ALSo RELOCATED SAME TIME WITH HIM TO GIVE HIM THE ULTIMATE SUPPORT AS A WIFE,TO BE THERE WHEN HE LOST OR WON.WHILE HE WAS GRIEVING OVER HIS LOSS ANOTHER WOMAN WAS WIPING HIS TEARS,RIGHT??AND U WERE SO SO FAR AWAY TRYING HIS NUMBERS TO SPEAK SOME AMERICAN SLANGS.ARENT U DUMB??U DIDNT CARE DAT UR HUSBAND WAS RUNNING AROUND CAMPAIGNING.DIDNT OBAMA’S WIFE STAY WD HIM THROUGH OUT THE CAMPAIGNS TO GIVE HIM AT LEAST WARMTH.ARE U REALLY LOCATED IN THE USA??NOW I BLAME UR HUSBAND FOR BEING SO EASY BUT I BLAME U TOO FOR NOT REALLY CARING.NO CARING WIFE WILL JUST BLESS HIM AND LET HIM GO TO NAIJA,A FATHER OF THREE YOUNG MEN.IF U ARE INDEED A NIGERIAN,DIDNT U KNOW OUR MEN ENOUGH??U HAVE NOT TESTED YORUBA PRICK FOR LONG.U DRANK THE MILK AND THREW AWAY CUP,BUT HE DRANK THE MILK AND ALSO BOUGHT THE COW…HOW ABOUT THAT??MAY BE WHEN HE TOO OPENS UP, WE SHALL HEAR THE OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY…NO SMOKE WITHOUT FIRE…BUT EVEN IF HE DOESNT OPEN UP,I AM SIMPLY SAYING DAT FOR THIS BIG SCAM WE DONT WANT HIM AS CHAIMAN.AMERICA TOO SHOULD DEAL WITH HIM ANY TIME HE STEPS FEET IN THE USA..THAT IS MY OWN….HE SHOULD NOT BE THERE AND I AM NOT HIDING.

    BARRISTER JON EBENEKWE OFOEGBU

  11. May l suggest we be on the side of caution and stop making comments without the full facts. We have only heard from a scorned woman and we know the saying about scorned women. One side does not give the full story. We all know what our women have become in the western world and dare l say that this is the fall out from such false living. When a Nigerian woman decides to turn her marriage into an American one, this is the result. How many African marriages in the western world are happy ones. Tell yourself the truth almost none. How do you fit adults born into a patriarchal society into models of a quasi-matriarchal one? Not possible, Q.E.D. THE AGUMBA NSUNILE.

  12. FACTS ARE SACRED.COMMENTS ARE FREE.
    WELL EVERY ONE CLAIMS TO HAVE THE FACTS OF THIS MATTER BUT NO ONE HAS COME UP WITH ANY REAL FACTS.
    I CHALLENGE ANY ONE WITH BETTER FACTS THAN MS NWOKENKWO TO SPEAK UP OR ELSE BE SILENT FOR EVER ON THIS MATTER.WHEN YOU SEE INJUSTICE OR OPPRESSION ON A FELLOW HUMAN BEING,AT LEAST HAVE A HEALTHY CONSCIENCE AND BE ON THE SIDE OF TRUTH.PEOPLE ARE CONDEMNING THE POOR WOMAN SO AS TO PLEASE THE ‘ALMIGHTY’ LOCAL GOVT CHAIRMAN.SO AS TO GET FALL OUTS FROM HIS OFFICE.IT OUGHT NOT BE SO.

  13. What Mr Micheal Obi said about Bisi’s husband washing underwears is very funny. Don’t live in Chicago? Don’t they have washer and dryer? Common, my husband sometimes do the laundry? It is no big deal where love exist. Secondly, the wife doesn’t have to work. It is men like him that let their women live at work in the USA.

  14. Mr Agumba Agu, I understand you have to hear from both sides. But point of correction, there are a lot of reasons why Nigerian women should turn their marriages into American ones first you are making your women do what you men should be doing, practically living at work, taking care of you, doing all household chores, taking care of of 5 to 6 children and then neglecting herself. Am sure you will not let her take care of her parents. You have to realize than when you are in The western world, you have to change. It is a must.

  15. I don’t blame whoever is trying to turn my facts as favor seeking message. I am not seeking any material favor from Dr. Jude, or through his new office. You people are supporting Bisi, because she is the first to give the wrong info to the public.
    Now let me ask this question. Before now was Dr. Jude doing badly in terms of business? The answer is NO. So let no one say he left Bisi, because he got appointment with the new government.
    Someone is heaping a curse on herself and marriage and not me, because I said what I know is a fact.If what I said is a lie let Bisi herself say so.
    What we should all know is , before a self made man could take such a step towards his marriage for so much ,must have happened.
    Flo, or whatever your name is if some men could come out open with the situation of their marriages in the US including yours(If you are married)then you know Dr. Jude’s action would be a child play. Ask your so called friend Bisi to tell you the truth. We all know what success is in the US in terms of Jude’s standard. NO SUCCESSFUL MAN IN THE US LEAVES HIS MARRIAGE LIKE THAT. There are things I would not write here. Your so called friend Bisi is being economical with the truth (Info).
    This is the last time I will comment on this issue, till it is resolved either way.

  16. if u read the article well,then this bisi is a tigress.
    i think dr jude saw hell in bisi’s lair.
    who wants a tigress for a wife??
    not me.
    all these yorubas defending this glorified prostitute can tell themselves they would do what dr jude did if they were in his shoes.
    i live in the usa and i know a lot of working class niger ladies who behave like bisi just because they find themselves in america.

  17. Chizo,flo first I ask God to forgive u people that stake their neck to defend this evil woman called Bisi and if u insist,it means the bird of the same feather.it will be ur turn soon.Bisi why didn’t u publish that u have been illegally withdrawing $10000 from this man’s A/c excluding ur monthly $5000 for 14months till the bubble bursted In jan.u fail to publish that u had ur first son with another man while in the marriage,this man open a business for u to manage instead u chose to fighting ur customers and workers and for 7years u never declare any profit or pay urself rather this man took care of the rent of $4ooo monthly for 7years.Evil woman,u forgot u have a case to answer for poison ur father the very day this man was to leave for Nigeria,his offence was that he protested ur maltreatment to ur husband. U are now crying wolf because ur plan to eliminate the man has been foiled.iam giving u a task now,take ur case to God if u can

  18. Jude Nwokenkwo you are nothing but a piece of garbage, whether you pretend to be micheal obi, tim williams, or chukwudi God will deny you has you have denied your first son in your words above in the mighty name of Jesus. Calamity and wrath of God will continue to visit you Jude. You are a disgrace to fatherhood. Jude things like this is not strange to you, your own father did it to your mother and all your brothers did exactly the same thing to their wives. So it’s a generational syndrome in your family. If your father treat your mother right, you will treat your own family well. You can talk about your first wife (Bisi) any way you want but when you allowed yourself or anyone to insult your kids then you are a worthless human being. Remember what people called nemesis, don’t worry its on the way to pay you a visit. Since you claimed your wife poisoned her father l guess you must be an accessory and co-murderer since you failed to report it to the authorities in America. Shameless fool!

  19. Odikwa risky.. All this bad english flying here and there on this page, especially from pple claimin they live in Chicago.. Naija primary school pikin can even do better..*smh*

  20. Janey, why don’t you check your corrections in your own sentences before commenting on others. Based on your write ups l guess you finish elementary school…..nuisance.

  21. “what am l saying self, l forgot beauty is in the eyes of the beholder…hahaha. Men, seriously if you want to leave your wife and kids for a lady pleaseeeee make sure is worth it and not someone you have to serve for the rest of your life with her family…..shiooo! This husband of of mine thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. He kept me and some his families in the dark for so long until God exposed him to me”

    From the woman”s statement,u ll know she is arrogant.Am a Yoruba man and truth be told,i respect Igbo Men for one thing,even if they divorce there wife they dont joke with there First child(A FIRST SON for that matter).There must be something hidden this woman must have done.Pls try read her post once again,and a good psychologist who tell better the type of person she is.

  22. Janey dnt mind dese bunch of idiots claiming they live in America speaking garbage. U re right. Truth b told, reading through d comments, i wondered about the authenticity of their claims about living in chicago. IDIOTIC ENTITIES.

  23. AK4GOD if indeed you are a physchology graduate you need to sue the university that trained you and you definitely need to ask for your money back. As an eduacator myself, your language here is very unrefine.

  24. Old girl, which one are you now? You seem to claimed to be AK4GOD a yoruba man here, Joxef, Janey, and a yoruba woman Yomi Banks on 247ureports.com which is the real you?Words of advise little girl, Mrs Bisi Nwokenkwo will never be your competition simply because you are not up to the task. I would advise you to focus on your BASTARD BABY because you will really need help to put it through better life journey than you have chosen for yourself my dear. If the picture above is your true face then l rest my case.

  25. Jude Nwokenkwo stop calling yourself a doctor. You are never a physician in Chicago or anywhere else in the U.S.A
    Fake Doctor! Tell everyone which hospital in the U.S you have ever practice. It’s a crime in America to assumed what you are not. You will be fully prosecuted.

  26. Mrs bisi,everyone is talking cos they aren’t facing the reality.we need solution and i d’ advice you to pray and call your husband to talk to him.GOD MUST INTERVENE.

  27. Mrs Bisi has moved on with her life and she is loving every bit of it, Jude you and your concubine should also do the same. Adio suckers!

  28. Na wao! My problem here is the kind of english people speak or sentences they make. Is it that they dont check back before submitting?
    Please for crying out loud,my head is already acheing for trying to read and understand most people’s contributions to this story especially those with claims of staying in Chicago.
    Abi na chicago english be all those ones?

    However,to the issue at hand,there is more to it than you people are seeing.
    Lets hear Jude’s own side of the story.

  29. i think if we are really sincere, it obvious that mr jude or watever he calls himslf is a liar and stupid man and GOD will punish u.suddenly ur wife of 21yrs is now a prostitue and lazy woman who was always asking u to wash her underwears which u gladly did but now becos of a younger blood u left her and ur 3 kids and u feel u will nt be punished? no matter wat she did u to u she is still ur wife or are u saying u are one perfect man? oloriburuku man and u shd nt be allowd to be in goverance. and by d way u dat foolish yoruba man ie mr AK4satan dat u are judging rubbish its obvious dat u urself are on dat bad path. its better u guys change cos wat goes ard comes ard.

  30. I hope this is not the pix of this yeeyee Mr Jude’s new found diamond? If this is her pix, she is as ulgy as Jude himself. Ugh! Why is she wearing too much makeup? She is not very attractive at all. This lady need fashion 911 (emergency) head to toe makeover. Wow l cannot believe this crazy man left his family for this short palm wine bottle.

  31. Nna na wah o. Mr jude has not said his side of d story and therefore its not wise to judge 4rm one angle. Or is doing dat in proxy? If so then there’s more to it here than meets d eye. U SEE EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ITS SONG, AND ONLY D COUPLES INVOLVED KNOW D DANCE STEPS TO DAT SONG. Anyone on d outside trying to judge or intervene in any marriage is making a grave mistake cuz u’ll only end up makin matters worse. Wen a man decides to marry a woman it means dat he has courted dat woman, studied her been wit her 4 a while and decided to accept watever dat comes wit her. So d issue of washin underwear doesn’t hold water cuz where luv, care and understandin is involved, dat issue is very trival. I would luv dis couple to put every thing aside; all hurtful words said in d fit of anger, pride, education, past mistake of spouse, etc and try to settle tins amicably if not 4 anytin, at least 4 d sake of their 3 hansome sons. I can’t imagine how traumatic it is 4 dem to b undergoing dis now. WHATEVER EFFORTS U MAKE 2WARDS MAKING AMENDS IN UR MARRIAGE, MAY GOD ASSIST U AND MAKE IT FRUITFUL IN JESUS NAME, AMEN.

  32. Hi pray ,fast , and talk to God about it god is the one that join you and your hansband together.
    Oneday ur hansband wil come looking for the childred ,
    take it as if ur hansband is died one day he wil come back to life.
    Remember in the bible the woman that catch commiting Adulty when the bring her to jesus did u knw what jesus said .
    Inshort not oneday pray by 12am every night for three days and pay ur tit in the church watch what wil happen. God bless you and ur family.

  33. Jude Nwokenkwo go takecare of your father in the village. The poor man is dying of hunger. How can you sleep at night knowing that your old aged father lives in a rundown one bedroom duncheon, while you are living in the city like a king. Ain’t you ashamed of yourself? You are only good to people outside[ useless man]. Or maybe the poor man is ripe whatever he sows just like you will too. 419!

  34. i dey lafff oh!let their conscience be their judge,both of them know the truth,as for our nwantiti shori,u go soon cry foul wen Oga catch anoda younger person.PLS all THOSE WHO HAVE CONTRIBUTED IN GVNG ME HEADACES through wrong spellings and grammatical errors shd get ready to be served a court summon for violating my fundamental human right.

  35. Bisi, try to seek an audience with the gov of ur hubby. To all the ladies out there, no matter how rich your hubbies might be, its always good for one to have a means of livelihood so that when things like this happen, one would have something to fall back on.

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