I got this open letter on liveofofo’s facebook page and decided to post it here. Please read the story
Duped and Rejected by Husband – Story of Bisi Nwokenkwo the wife of Jude Nwokenkwo, a local Government Chairman in Imo state, Nigeria
I undertsand this may come to some people as a surprise and to others it may seems like an angry wife venting all their laundry through social media. What ever your feelings may be please keep an open mind and think about what it might be like if your own sister or family member was the one facing this kind of situation, what will you do? Remember l could be your sister, your mother, and or your relative…..
My name is Bisi Nwokenkwo the wife of Jude Nwokenkwo, the current Ehime mbano local government chairman Imo state, Nigeria. We have been married for 21yrs with three wonderful boys age 17, 11, and 8year old. Fourteen months ago my husband Jude Nwokenkwo decided with my full support and blessings to run for Federal house of Representative under APGA in Imo state, he lost the election to another candidate from New york. But was appointed the local government chairman (Ehime Mbano) by the current Governor of Imo State (His excellency Rochas).
Since fourteen months now my husband (Jude) has abandoned me and our three boys without any prior diagreements or problems. I have tried numerous avenue to either speak to him directly about his obligations and or have his closest friends talk to him, every effort has failed. As of now our home has been foreclosed and he has not contributed towards the financial stability of his boys since he left for the election in November 2010.
I found out in the begining of 2011through private investigation that Jude Nwokenkwo is now married to a 21yrs old lady called Ugonma Duru younger sister of Cyprian I. Duru, l understand this young lady have a family members in Virginia that condoned her behavior. According to this younger lady’s family in Virginia, Jude had told them that he has never been married or have any kids, which is a naive statement to make……. a 48yrs old Ibo man not married and no kids, are you kiding me???? What planet do this family thinks they are from? Throughout all this, l have tried to justify my husband’s action/irresponsible behaviour by saying to myself men will be men and may be probably he is using this younger lady to release election tension in Naija. I guess it’s more than releasing election tension, after drinking the milk Jude decided to buy the cow. If only the cow worth losing your family and life for. You all will see what am talking about when you see jude’s new concubine’s picture. I can’t believe this weak, no backbone man is leaving me and our boys for this ugly joker looking face lady……what am l saying self, l forgot beauty is in the eyes of the beholder…hahaha. Men, seriously if you want to leave your wife and kids for a lady pleaseeeee make sure is worth it and not someone you have to serve for the rest of your life with her family…..shiooo! This husband of of mine thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. He kept me and some his families in the dark for so long until God exposed him to me.
As of now Jude Nwokenkwo is living with this lady in owerri city as a married couple and are both expecting a baby anytime soon, it not a rumor but facts.
This evil heartless man (Jude) is not only commiting an adultery/begamy, he has the nerves to ruined my credit here in the States by taking out a $40,000 loan on my name from JP morgan chase without my consent…..people who does that???? if it’s not a criminal minded human being. Jude Nwokenkwo and his brothers Emmanuel and Simon Nwokenkwo are bunch of 419s.
Furthermore, when Jude came back to the U.S in July 2011 for three weeks he wired $8,000 to this younger lady’s account in Naija, l have all the evidence and he also purchased a $2000.00 wedding rings for her, when l comfronted him in front of our pastor with all the evidence he have the nerves to say that it was for my birthday….negro are you for real?? Mind you people he never give me that ring. And he ran back to Nigeria without our knowledges.
The sad part was when he was sworn in as the local govt chairman, he refused the presences of me and the boys, l can’t believe he used his brother’s wife as a woman standing in my place. When people asked him where is family are he cooked up a story about how they will join him later. What a shame!
This stupid man (Jude Nwokenkwo) has a lucrative Home Healthcare business here in chicago, he cannot even instruct his business partner to give his family money to support us instead he has the gut to use his younger brother Simon Uche Nwokenkwo to wire money to him in Naija everytime and also he has been helping him shipping mecedes benz trucks to Nigeria for a present for his new fake wife, oh sorry, his concubine.
Both brothers are now scheming the medical supply distributors out of thousands of dollar worth of equipments by closing down our medical supply company here in chicago, Illinois and shipping all unpaid equipments to Nigeria to open up a new equipment supply shop in Owerri Imo state, Nigeria. That’s a crime.
For the past fourteen months have tried to reason with this man, l can’t keep this any longer and l just want all this to be out in the open for everyone to know the true color of Jude Nwokenkwo…. this man is a camileon.
Jude and his concubine called my mobile phone this afternoon Jan 24th 2012 from Nigeria to insult me. Maaannn Jude must be pussy whooped as one of my dear friend said. Huh!
My fellow Nigerians, if some of you on this forum thinks am venting……damn right skippy l am, 21yrs of married is not a joke. My kids and l deserved better than the way Jude is treating us and it is not fair. “never bite the hands that feeds you” I thought wise people say charity begins at home. If Jude cannot take care of his family how on earth did the Governor appoint this man to serve his constituency. Naija citizens need to start watching out for people they put in the office to serve them, that is why we are still in all this mess.
Mrs Bisi Nwokenkwo