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I have been so disturbed since I saw my house help breastfeeding my one year old. I have sent the maid away but is there something I need to do for my child? Should I take the child to the doctor? Please advise Related posts: Shocker: HIV+ Maid Cooked Employer kid’s Food With Menstrual Blood Video: Nafissatou Diallo, hotel maid in Strauss-Kahn case speaks out Police Wife Arrested For Maltreating Maid Mother Sells Her 18-Month-Old Daughter To 39-year-old Man to Make Child Porn Police In Lagos Arrest Child Kidnap Kingpin Police DPO shot and killed in Kano as she picks child from daycare

let me start by giving a brief description of myself or the sort of person I used to be. I used to think of myself as really disciplined, principled and one who would never compromise her values or standards. Also, I used to be so quick to pass judgement. I never could understand why girls dated married men and deluded themselves into thinking they were in love! Not only did I find such circumstances disgustingly annoying but also judged the ladies as silly, silly, gullible, irresponsible, thoughtless, selfish and cruel! I also had zero tolerance for people who cheat on their partners. I saw them as discontented and highly undisciplined individuals. However, I have had reason to change my perspectives as a result of some recent happenings in my life! I cheated on my partner with a married man!  I

I gave my life to Jesus in my final year in school 2007, and since than I’ve stayed with God faithfully. I am born again and serving God faithfully, I judge him faithful who has kept me this far. Am 30 years old, single and never been married. Every year of my life men come in and out of my life, they come in batches asking my hand in marriage but after praying to God to choose the best for me none will eventually marry me (reason that I refuse to have sex with them that’s for some, while others won’t say why they left). I really want to keep myself till my wedding night though I am no longer a virgin (lost it in school before i gave my live to Christ). I am tired because this challenge is really depressing me and is affecting my walk with God seriously. I don’t want this batch upon

Please, I need you readers candid advice on this issue. I met this really hot guy in a bbm group and we hit it off immediately. He wanted a relationship but we couldn’t have one because of the distance. He lives in New York and I, Nigeria. We kept in touch though. He was in Nigeria recently and we met briefly. He was everything I wanted in a guy. Imagine my horror when I walked into my dad’s family house and saw him sitting with my grandma and my dad. The look on his face was indescribable when my dad introduced me as his daughter. We had not met earlier because my dad stopped talking to his elder sister (his mum) way before they got married over some stupid mistake my aunt made. Apparently, he came back to settle the dispute between the family members. Now, he says he’s in love with

Dear Readers; I have been the angry, unsatisfied and bitter wife for the last nine years. I’m married to a man who has absolutely no respect for the marriage institution. He has had more girlfriends than I have changed my hair since we got married. He started cheating on me months after our wedding in 2004 when I was pregnant. And it hasn’t stopped ever since. Every other day a different girl, a different situation, a lot of drama. Initially he would lie or try to cover up when I ask him questions or catch him but now he tells me to go to hell and leave the marriage if I was no longer satisfied. Well, I have four kids and I don’t plan to be a single mother in this kind of environment so I’m staying put in my marriage but I’m done being the victim. Yes, I have

I met a guy some years back, he asked me out after sometime and I agreed to date him. After some couple of months together, he left me for another lady. He sent his friend to me & this friend of his asked me out but I told him I am not interested. He kept coming to my house & I was always hosting him but without any sexual intercourse. After a year, he proposed to me but I didn’t accept his proposal and I told him to give me sometime. Pls advice me should I accept his proposal or let him go? This is a personal issue pls advice me & pls no insult. Thanks Related posts: Man Impregnates Wife’s Friend 3 Months After Wedding ‘I Will Marry Iyanya If He Proposes’ – Yvonne Nelson Man Rapes His Best Friend’s 10-year-old Daughter Five Times A 15-Years Old Mentally

I PREFER TO WAIT TILL I GET MARRIED BEFORE I HAVE SEX Pls help me! I’m a 27year old guy and my girl is 24 years old. We have been dating for two years now. We never had sex and we vowed never to do it until we got married but my girl is now insisting that we do it or she’ll leave me. She said that she was tired of being a virgin and I made a vow to God never to do it until I got married but I don’t want to lose her. Please what do I do? Related posts: World’s Oldest Virgin Is Still Alive Man Confirms His Girlfriend Virginity With His Manhood 70-year-old virgin says she’s finally ready for love MTV Launches TV Show for Virgins Willing To Lose Virginity on TV Why I remain a virgin at 25 – Upcoming Actress Annabella Zwyndila South African Star Bleaches Skin, Says “She Was

The police officer asks a middle-aged woman sarcastically: “Did he pop you?” Apparently uncomfortable with the presence of a small crowd that had gathered, she was reluctant to answer the question. But the man at the centre of the matter roundly denied the accusation. The sex hawker he brought home the previous night had alleged that he slept with her and refused to pay for services rendered all night long. He told the policemen who arrested him that he refused to pay her because he dozed off without touching her, due to excessive booze. It was obvious he did not convince the police because the prostitute was asked the same question again and replied: “He popped me.” This was despite the man insisted, “I didn’t have sex with her and I can’t pay for

I have read lots of books, articles, and magazine on how to approach woman but none of them is working for me, I just wonder what is wrong with me. The only problem I have is how to control my manhood when I approach woman. Any time I see a woman I like and try to approach her, my manhood will just start to erect and it’s showing off in my trouser even if I put on jeans anybody that look at me will surely know that something is going on in this guy’s mind. I have tried to put my mind away from it and go after the girl but in the course of the approaching the “Big Man” is getting stronger which make me feel uncomfortable and most time I look for an immediate excuses to leave the girl as if I have something urgently to attend to immediately but it’s a lie, is just

I was married to my Ex Husband for 6 years but because he was not meeting up and was constantly in financial problems, my family encouraged me to divorce him. I ended up marrying someone else but now I am not happy anymore. All I think about now is my ex-husband. He is now the only thing I think about all day. At the moment, I am breaking up with my current husband because I am no longer happy with him and he seems to agree that we go our separate ways. I have been thinking of contacting my Ex husband but I don’t know how he would react since i left him when he was really in a financial mess. It’s been 2 years since we divorced. I was told that he is rich now and has a wife and kid. Please Help me, I love my Ex husband and I want him back in my arms. Related posts: I Didn’t Love My

My marriage is just three months old. But the kind of problems we are already having is making me tired already. When my husband and I were dating we used to share his room and bed so I assumed after marriage we would share a room. But to my amazement, after a week, he told me to move my things into the next room. Even though the rooms have doors that link them together through the bathroom and toilet, I didn’t like the idea of sleeping on a separate bed from my husband at night. The more I tried to argue the point, the more determined he appeared to be. Since it was too early for us to be fighting over such a matter, I didn’t push it beyond registering my displeasures. Besides, I reasoned there is no way he would protest my sleeping in his room. But I reasoned wrongly as that night, he

“I found out my wife of 11 years cheated on me with some guy. This was last year June. She confessed to me after I confronted her with the facts. I decided to forgive her and stay married to her because I have cheated on her in the past too and I didn’t want to destroy our family because we have four small children together. The thing now is; I don’t love her anymore. I can’t stand her and can’t even bare to touch her. When she talks to me I get so angry I feel like stabbing her in the eye but I’ve never laid hands on her. I don’t talk to her much except when we want to talk about the kids. We live in the same house but as strangers. She’s really tried to make it up but it’s not working. I actually hate it when she’s around me, and

I need honest and constructive advice from fellow readers. I have been married for a little over a year now. In the earlier years of our relationship, it seemed as though we shared similar values (still does sometimes) but must importantly, even though I loved him desperately, I knew he loved me even more. Barely a couple of months into our marriage, I fell pregnant. Though it was a fairly easy pregnancy compared to most other horrible experiences I’ve come across, I was left with zero sex drive. I’d always be quite fit and beautiful but the pregnancy made me feel permanently ill and unattractive and this affected my desire for sex. Despite this, I kept at it knowing fully well that there was another person with needs and desires to be met. Sex stopped being as frequent as before