Reader’s Mail Dear Liveofofo Readers, I need solutions, it all seems like my world is crashing right before me. I’m a girl of 28 and I’m in a relationship of about 2 years now. I work with an insurance company and life has been good until my boyfriend lost his job roughly 10 months ago. And everything changed. I cater for him and myself as well since then. He continually nags about not having a job despite his applications for a new one. And to be very honest this whole situation sucks life out of me. So I decided to meet my boss at the office and I asked if he could help in any way. He accepted but requested sex with me and because I felt fed up with my boyfriend’s situation, I gave in to sleep with my boss but we’d an agreement that it will be a one time stuff.
1. No apprehension If your best friend is your life partner, there would not be any apprehension in discussing things. There will be a good level of compatibility, so this will also help in better communication. With your best friend, you would be able to speak your heart out. Do not forget, he is also your life partner, so this will help to build a strong bond of relationship. 2. No judgement When your bestfriend is your life partner, you won’t judge him. As a friend you have accepted him with all his shortcomings. Now, as a life partner, you will accept him for what he is. There is nothing to be judgmental about this. Had he not been your best friend, you would have judged him as your life partner. 3. No expectations When your bestfriend is your life partner, there are practically no expectations.
The race to marry a BIG BOY is what’s now in vogue. Most ladies these days can’t function if there is no cash involved. The urge for material things has changed the STORY OF LOVE. Never make money your only priority when choosing your spouse/life partner. There’s more to marriage than money alone. A man with a good heart is better than a rich man with the heart of beast. Most women say they want security in life so they won’t date a poor man! If he’s not rich today doesn’t mean he will be poor for life. The happiness and security of your life is your own responsibility. Those who choose never to endure at all may have to suffer for long. Getting married to the rich doesn’t guarantee happiness in life. HAPPINESS IS PRICELESS. Perhaps those who say they will rather cry inside a
Have you ever wondered if there are guys out there that simply will not marry you? Are there certain men from whom you should just stay away because chances are, the relationship is going to be an exercise in frustration for you? You are not alone — many women think about this all the time. And yes, there are certain types of men that you should just plain avoid because if you were playing the odds, the odds say these guys are just not going to seal the deal with you. Here are 10 types of men that I, as a professional matchmaker, would recommend you steer clear of: Mr. “Still Hung Up On His Ex”: We have all been out with this guy. He says he is over his ex, yet at every turn, he talks about her and compares you to her. Please. He is not over her and until he is over her, he is not marrying you. Mr.
I have been so disturbed since I saw my house help breastfeeding my one year old. I have sent the maid away but is there something I need to do for my child? Should I take the child to the doctor? Please advise Related posts: Shocker: HIV+ Maid Cooked Employer kid’s Food With Menstrual Blood Video: Nafissatou Diallo, hotel maid in Strauss-Kahn case speaks out Police Wife Arrested For Maltreating Maid Mother Sells Her 18-Month-Old Daughter To 39-year-old Man to Make Child Porn Police In Lagos Arrest Child Kidnap Kingpin Police DPO shot and killed in Kano as she picks child from daycare
let me start by giving a brief description of myself or the sort of person I used to be. I used to think of myself as really disciplined, principled and one who would never compromise her values or standards. Also, I used to be so quick to pass judgement. I never could understand why girls dated married men and deluded themselves into thinking they were in love! Not only did I find such circumstances disgustingly annoying but also judged the ladies as silly, silly, gullible, irresponsible, thoughtless, selfish and cruel! I also had zero tolerance for people who cheat on their partners. I saw them as discontented and highly undisciplined individuals. However, I have had reason to change my perspectives as a result of some recent happenings in my life! I cheated on my partner with a married man! I
Now on to business. Today’s post was sent to us anonymously and I really found it funny and intriguing. Not much to say now, just read it and share your thoughts on the flip side. ************ Before I start, let me add a little disclaimer. I did not write this as a way of starting any form of controversy. I know the term ‘orobo’ can come across as offensive to some so let me apologize ahead of time. I’m just here to share my story. Thanks. *** I was out last friday with one of my goons. You know trawling the waters for some fun and maybe to see if we’d get lucky or something. You know going with the flow. After a few drinks (Sambuca shots are the business), all the ladies started looking fine as hell and then the DJ threw on Back To The Matter and the club went crazy. I lost
I gave my life to Jesus in my final year in school 2007, and since than I’ve stayed with God faithfully. I am born again and serving God faithfully, I judge him faithful who has kept me this far. Am 30 years old, single and never been married. Every year of my life men come in and out of my life, they come in batches asking my hand in marriage but after praying to God to choose the best for me none will eventually marry me (reason that I refuse to have sex with them that’s for some, while others won’t say why they left). I really want to keep myself till my wedding night though I am no longer a virgin (lost it in school before i gave my live to Christ). I am tired because this challenge is really depressing me and is affecting my walk with God seriously. I don’t want this batch upon
There was a day I asked him, “do you love me?” and he said “yes”. I now said but what will I do for you to love me more and he said if only I can pass my JAMB. Well, the JAMB result came out a few days ago and I did not pass it. When I told him the result, he said “hmmm, my baby since you didn’t pass your JAMB I don’t think things can work anymore” Now I don’t know what to do because I love him very much and don’t want to lose him. Please, could he have fallen out of love with me cos of my JAMB result or he’s gotten tired of the relationship & using it as a convenient excuse to cop out OR he never loved me before? please I need your advice Related posts: How to Check Your 2013/2014 Jamb Result Without Scratch Card How to
Cheating in relationships and even marriages is a very common thing and happens every now and then and as a man how do you dictate the change of pace in your relationship to know if your GIRL is unfaithful? Well the signs may vary but there are certain facts that remains a key to dictate foul play but that’s if you’re paying attention to situations and not just LYING flat on the bed called TRUST. HERE ARE THE POINTERS: 1: She tells more than usual how her day went When a woman has skeleton tied around her daily activities, she usually comes up with much stories to cover the GAPS in between. A smart man should start from day one to monitor this area in other to know when the stories starts getting too LONG. 2: She password her phone when with her man There is no other reason as to
Men and women are very distinct creatures. While men have a tendency to be straightforward, women are often not so simple. Unlike men, women often use hints and insinuations to steer you in their direction, and when trying to understand what they really mean, you are sometimes better off reading between the lines. The following cheat sheet will help you learn how to listen to your woman and bridge the gap between what she says and what she means. 1. “Fine.” This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right. 2. “Just give me five minutes.” If she is getting dressed, this means 30 minutes. 3. “Where is our relationship going?” What she means is that she would like for you to suggest the idea of the two of you to graduating to a more serious and exclusive
Still waiting for you man to pop the big question to you? Wondering why it is taking him so long? Here’s a list of ten possible reasons why your significant other hasn’t asked you to marry him yet. 1. You Are Already Playing House; You live together. You have children. You share bills. You have essentially taken on traditional wife duties without the title. Why should he get married? 2. He’s Already Said No, You’re Just Not Listening Please keep in mind that no amount of love can make someone do something they don’t want to do. 3. You Are a Liability Do you have excessive debt, several children (not his) or other responsibilities he doesn’t want? Bottom line, most men “hold on an average hand” and only marry when the perception is we’re gaining an asset. 4. You Are
We don’t intentionally go hunting for ur husbands, we meet them like you meet people everyday, through friends, at the supermarket, at work functions hell even on the side of the road. We don’t always know from the get go the man is married because a lot of these brothers don’t wear rings or come with a stamp saying “taken”. Half the time he’s alone, there’s no trace of you, even in his car! It takes a well trained eye to spot traces of another woman, e.g seatbelt perfume, weave strands, hair oil on the headrest, etc. My job in your relationship is to give him a break from reality, yes you and the kids are real but so are the bills and school fees and work stress. I’m where he de-stresses. I know my place trust me I do, I know to keep quiet when
You got your fab new dress on; 6-inch heels that are just to-die-for and let’s not forget your flawless make up. You’re hanging out with your girls at your favorite bar and having a blast. You can no doubt notice the guys have got their eyes on you, it’s only a matter of time before one would come over and say hi right? You walk across the bar on your own a few times, just in case the guys are intimidated by the crowd of girls around you. Still nothing. You start to wonder if you were wrong about the dress, maybe the shoes are not the right color, or the mascara is starting to smear. Your self-confidence gradually starts to wane until eventually, you just can’t wait to leave the bar. While you might look Fab and you feel like you are working it, sometimes to get the right attention,
Please, I need you readers candid advice on this issue. I met this really hot guy in a bbm group and we hit it off immediately. He wanted a relationship but we couldn’t have one because of the distance. He lives in New York and I, Nigeria. We kept in touch though. He was in Nigeria recently and we met briefly. He was everything I wanted in a guy. Imagine my horror when I walked into my dad’s family house and saw him sitting with my grandma and my dad. The look on his face was indescribable when my dad introduced me as his daughter. We had not met earlier because my dad stopped talking to his elder sister (his mum) way before they got married over some stupid mistake my aunt made. Apparently, he came back to settle the dispute between the family members. Now, he says he’s in love with