My Pastor Said I Don’t Have A Future With Him After 3 Abortions – Sandra
“My name is Sandra and I am from d eastern part this is my story. I was raped when I was 14 and it affected me so much that throughout my secondary education I never had any male friends and talking to a boy then was a problem.
It continue till I finished my secondary skool n luckily for me I gained admission into one of the university in the eastern part and there my problem continued again.
After 5yrs of my encounter, I fell in love wit this guy in same school with me same level bt different faculty, at first it was so beautiful loving him but at a point it went sour cause he started beating me whenever he is angry n at most times will force himself on me after beatings.
I would cry and say I will never forgive him atmost time I will call it quit but when he asks for forgiveness I will stupidly forgive him, most times I wonder if I am under a charm or what?. That’s not where it stopped, I became pregnant, I told him and he said he is not ready to be a father that I shud abort it which I agreed.
I aborted it and it affected me academically cause I did it after my 1st semester yr 2 exams, I cried and ask God 2 forgive and told him that I don’t want the relationship again and he pleaded with me that infact no more sex I agree and believed in him but it was all a lie cause right now I’ve done the 3rd abortion and yet still in love with him even afta ma pastor told me that I dont have a future with him and that he will destroy me and my future and leave me for another girl.
Please I need help cause I am running mad, this whole thing is affecting me badly both academically and emotionally.
“What should I do? Because some part of me still want to be with this guy but life and future is a stake - ” Sandra.
Source: Naijapals forum
U beta quit d relatiönship,and face wat God has 4 u,
There is really nothing much 2 say,but i’ll tell u there is just this one life u have,if at any point u die because of the beatings and abortions u are taking from this guy,i assure u,u will not make it to heavens gate.Though no man is perfect but try and change your location or school else where.I know with time u will to forget about this guy that does not wont d best 4 u
what you have for the guy is lust and not love and i must say you re foolishly destroying your unborn generation n in the name of love.follow God’s direction fast and amend ur ways he will fprgive and restore you
If u know ur life is very important to u,is better quit.
Mtcheew… You aint serious i must tell you. You all shouldn’t advice her, cos she is just stupidly foolish or insane or probably under charm.. If u are under charm, better find a good pastor to deliver u or go home and seek a solution.. Wat on earth is dis? Girl u av to wise up.. Seriously….
i beg you in the name of God Almighty, please quit that God forsaken relationship and face your academy, try and work on your mind and i see God Almighty helping for you can do without that guy, consecrate on your academy and God shall see you through. See U on top
Still follow your mind, the abortion thing was not all his fault but more of your fault, even if he forcefully sex you, you should know what to do immediately after sex to avoid pregnancy also try to understand him to avoid the fighting he is not mad, no charm is controlling you, you love him and he loves you that’s all if not you would forget him without a second thought, pastor is not God your happiness in in life is all wrapped around that feelings you do have for him ….LOVE!